BEWAFAI

Bewafai ki yeh intehaan ho gayi,
ki tujhse juda ho kar bhi jeene ki aadat ho gayi
tum laut ke aaoge humse milne
roz dil ko behlaane ki aadat ho gayi

tere vaade pe kya bharosa kiya humne
ki shab bhar tera intezaar karne ki aadat ho gayi
khushi mein bhi hum kya muskuraate ki
teri judaai mein roney ki aadat ho gayi

kaafiley nikal gaye humen chhod ke
ki ab to tanha safar ki aadat ho gayi
har mod par mili ghum ki parchaaiyaan
zindagi se samjhauta karne ki aadat ho gayi

jaante the ki nahi ho sakte kabhi tum humaare
phir bhi khuda se tujhe maangne ki aadat ho gayi
paiman-e-wafaa kya hain humen kya maaloom
ki bewafaaon se dil lagaane ki aadat ho gayi"

Phir kisi yaad ne raat bhar hai jagaya mujhko
Kya saza di hey mohabat nay khudaya mujhko
Din ko aaram hai na rat ko hai chain kabhi
Janay kis khaak say kudrat nay banaya mujhko

Dukh to yeh hai keh zamanay main milay ghair sabhi
Jo mila hai woh mila ban ke paraya mujhko
Jab koi bhi na raha kandha mere ronay ko
Ghar ki deewaron ne seenay say lagaya mujhko

Woh diya hoon jo mohabbat ne jalaya tha kabhi
Gham ki andhi ne subah aur shaam bujhaya mujhko
kaisay bhoolon ga tere saath guajare lamhay
Yaad aata raha julfon ka hi saya mujhko.....

ab to umeed-e-wafa tum say nahein hai koi
Phir charaghon ki tarah kis ne jalaya mujhko
Bewafa zindagi ne jab chod diya hai tanha
Maut ne pyaar say pehloo main bithaya mujhko.

"Leaf's departure is because of Wind's pursuit. Or because Tree didn't ask her to stay......"

worth a read if you haven't yet read....

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TREE SPEAKS

People call me "Tree".

I had dated 5 girls when I was in Pre-U. There is one girl who I loved a lot but never dared to go after. She didn't have a pretty face, good figure or an outstanding charm. She was just a very ordinary girl. I
liked her. I really liked her. I liked her innocence, her frankness, her intelligence and her fragility. Reason for not going after her was thatI felt somebody so ordinary like her was not a good match for me. I was
also afraid that after we were together all the feelings would vanish. Iwas also afraid other's gossip would hurt her. I felt that if she were my girl, she'd be mine ultimately & I didn't have to give up everything just for her. The last reason, made her accompanying me for 3 years. She watched me chase other girls, and I have made her heart cry for 3 years. She was a good actor, and me a demanding director. When I kissed my second girlfriend, she bumped into us. She was embarrassed but smiled & said, "Go on!" before running off. The next day, her eyes were swollen like a walnut. I did not want to know what caused her to cry. Later that day, I returned from soccer training to get something & watched her cry in the classroom for an hour or so. My fourth girlfriend did not like her. There was once when both of them quarreled. I know that based on her character she is not the type that will start the quarrel. However, I still sided my girlfriend. I shouted at her & ignored her feelings and walked off with my girlfriend. The next day, she was laughing & jokingwith me like nothing happened. I know she was hurt but she did not know deep down inside I was hurt too.
When I broke up with my fifth girlfriend, I asked her out. Later that day, I told her I had something to tell her. I told her about my breakup. Coincidentally, she has something to tell me too, about her getting together. I knew who the person was. His pursuit for her had been the talk of the School. I did not show her my heartache, just smiles & best wishes. Once I reached home, I could not breathe. Tears rolled & I broke down.
How many times have I seen her cry for the man who did not acknowledgeher presence?
During graduation, I read a SMS in my hp.

It said, "Leaf's departure is because of Wind's pursuit. Or because Tree didn't ask her to stay"

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LEAF SPEAKS

People call me "Leaf".

During the 3 years of Pre-U, I was on very close terms with a guy as buddy kind. However, when he had his first girlfriend, I learnt a feeling I never should have learnt - Jealousy. Sourness to the extreme limit. They were only together for 2 months. When they broke up, I hid my happiness. But after a month, he got together with another girl. I liked him & I know he liked me. But why won't he pursue me? Since he loves me why he didn't he make the first move? Whenever he had a new girlfriend, my heart would hurt. After some time, I began to suspect that this was one-sided love. If he didn't like me, why did he treat me so well? It's beyond what you will normally do for a friend. I know his likes, his habits. But his feelings towards me I can never figure out. You can't expect me a girl, to ask him. Despite that, I still wanted to be by his side. Carefor him, accompany him, and love him. Hoping that one day, he will come to love me. Because of this, I waited for him. Sometimes, I wondered if I should continue waiting. The pain, the dilemma accompanied me for 3 years.
At the end of my 3rd year, a junior pursues me. Everyday he pursues me. He's like the cool & gentle wind, trying to blow off a leaf from a tree. In the end, I realized that I wanted to give this wind a small footing in my heart. I know the wind will bring the leaf to a better land. Finally, leaf left the tree, but the tree only smiled & didn't ask me to stay.

Leaf's departure is because of Wind's pursuit. Or cause Tree didn't ask her to stay.

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WIND SPEAKS

People call me "wind".

Because I like a girl called leaf. Because she's so dependent on tree, so I have to be a gust wind. A wind that will blow her away. When I first met her, it was 1 month after I was transferred to this newschool. I saw a petite person looking at my seniors & me playing soccer. During ECA time, she will always be sitting there. Be it alone or with her friends, looking at him. When he talks with girls, there's jealousy in her eyes. When he looked at her, there's a smile in her eyes. Looking at her became my habit. Just like, she likes to look at him.
One day, she didn't appear. I felt something missing. I can't explain the feeling except it's a kind of uneasiness. The senior was also not there as well. I went to their classroom, hid outside and saw my senior scolding her. Tears were in her eyes while he left. The next day, I saw her at her usual place, looking at him. I walked over and smiled to her. Took out a note & gave to her. She was surprised. She looked at me, smiled & accepts the note.The next day, she appeared & passes me a note and left. It read, "Leaf's heart is too heavy and wind couldn't blow her away."
"It's not that leaf heart is too heavy. It because leaf never want to leave tree." I replied her note with this statement and slowly she started to talk to me & accept my presents & phone calls. I know that the person she loves is not me. But I have this perseverance that one day I will make her like me. Within 4 months, I have declared my love for her no less than 20 times.Every time, she will divert away from the topic. But I never give up. If I decide I want her to be mine, I will definitely use all means to win her over. I can't remember how many times I have declared my love to her. Although I know, she will try to divert but I still bear a small ray of hope. Hoping that she will agree to be my girlfriend. I didn't hear any reply from her over the phone. I asked, "What are you doing? How come you didn't want to reply?" She said, "I'm nodding my head". "Ah?" I couldn't believe my ears. "I'm nodding my head" She replied loudly. I hang up the phone, quickly changed and took a taxi and rushed to her place & pressed her doorbell. As soon as she opened the door, I hugged her tightly.

Leaf departure is because of Wind pursuit. Or because Tree didn't ask her to stay...


Moral
In love, we win very rarely, but when love is true, even if you lose,you still win just for having the tingle of loving someone more than you love yourself. There comes a time when we stop loving someone, not because that person has stopped loving us but because we have found out that, they'd be happier if we let go....
Why do we close our eyes when we sleep? When we cry? When we imagine?
When we kiss? This is because THE MOST BEAUTIFUL THINGS IN THE WORLD ARE UNSEEN.
There are things that we never want to let go of, people we never want to leave behind, but keep in mind that letting go isn't the end of the world.It's the beginning of a new life. Happiness lies for those who cry those who hurt, those who have searched and those who have tried. For only they can appreciate the importance of the people who have touched our lives.
A great love? It's when you shed tears and still you care for them, it's when they ignore you and still you long for them. It's when they begin to love another and yet you smile and say, "I'm happy for you." If love
fails, set yourself free, let your heart spread its wings and fly again. Remember you may find love and lose it, but when love dies, you never have to die with it. The strongest people are not those who always win but those who stand back up when they fall. Somehow, along the course of life, you learn about yourself and realize that there should never be regrets, only a lifelong appreciation of the choices you've made. Loving is not how you forget but how you forgive, not how you listen but how you understand, not what you see but how you feel, and not how you let go but how you hold on.
It's more dangerous to weep inwardly rather than outwardly. Outward tears can be wiped away while secret tears scar forever...

It's best to wait for the one you want than settle for one that's available. It's best to wait for the right one because life is too short to waste on just someone.

Keep loving.

Why am i the one to die?

>I went to a party, Mom, I remembered what you said.
>You told me not to drink, Mom, So I drank soda instead.
> I really felt proud inside, Mom, The way you said I would.
> I didn't drink and drive, Mom, Even though the others said I should.

> I know I did the right thing, Mom, I know you are always right.
> Now the party is finally ending, Mom, As everyone is driving out of sight.
> As I got into my car, Mom, I knew I'd get home in one piece.
> Because of the way you raised me, So responsible and sweet.

> I started to drive away, Mom, But as I pulled out into the road,
>The other car didn't see me, Mom, And hit me like a load.
>As I lay there on the pavement, Mom, I heard the policeman say,
>"The other guy is drunk," Mom, And now I'm the one who will pay.

>I'm lying here dying, Mom.... I wish you'd get here soon.
>How could this happen to me, Mom? My life just burst like a balloon.
>There is blood all around me, Mom, And most of it is mine.
>I hear the medic say, Mom, I'll die in a short time.

> I just wanted to tell you, Mom,I swear I didn't drink.
> It was the others, Mom. The others didn't think.
>He was probably at the same party as I.
>The only difference is, he drank.And I will die.

>Why do people drink, Mom?It can ruin your whole life.
>I'm feeling sharp pains now. Pains just like a knife.
>The guy who hit me is walking, Mom, And I don't think it's fair.
>I'm lying here dying, And all he can do is stare.

> Tell my brother not to cry, Mom.Tell Daddy to be brave.
> And when I go to heaven, Mom, Put "Daddy's Boy" on my grave.
> Someone should have told him, Mom, Not to drink and drive.
>If only they had told him, Mom,I would still be alive.

> My breath is getting shorter, Mom. I'm becoming very scared.
>Please don't cry for me, Mom.When I needed you, you were always there.
>I have one last question, Mom. Before I say good bye.
> I didn't drink and drive, So why am I the one to die?

SAZA DENE WALE RAZA PUCHTE HAI....
JEENE KI HUM SE WAJAH PUCHTE HAI....
DETE HAI KHUD HI ZEHER HUME....
AUR AAKAR FIR KITNA HUA HAI ASAR PUCHTE HAI

KISSI KE WAADE PAR ZINDAGI TABAH KAR BAITHE....
DIWANGI ME YE KAISA GUNAH KAR BAITHE....
EK CHAND KI AARZOO KE LIYE....
HUM APNI HASIN RAATON KO `FANAAH` KAR BAITHE....

WO DHUNDTE RAHE HUME DAGAR-DAGAR. ...
SHAYAD UNHE HUMARI TALASH THI....
PAR AFSOOS JIS KABAR PAR THE UNKE KADAM....
USSI ME HUMARI LAASH THI

APNI DHADKANO KI AAWAZ SUNI HAI MAINE....
APNI AANKHON SE KOI BAAT KAHI HAI MAINE....
BAS EK DIDAAR KE LIYE KHUD KO SAMBHALE BAITHE HAI....
NAA JAANE ISHQ ME KAUN SI RAAH CHUNI HAI MAINE.
KOI ROK NAA PAAYI JISE LAMBI DAGAR BHI....
AB THAKA DETA USSE ZARA SA SAFAR BHI....

MEHFIL NA SAHI TANHAI TO MILTI HAI....
MILNA NA SAHI JUDAII TO MILTI HAI....
KAUN KEHTA HAI PYAAR ME KUCH NAHI MILTA....
WAFA NA SAHI BE-WAFAII TO MILTI HAI

IT'S YOU

Hey guys,
here is something a friend of mine forwarded. TOO GOOD!!..chk it out...

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We fall in love once..the rest is just a compromise.

You see me walking the road with someone else.
Its not because I like her company,
Its because you're not brave enough to walk beside me.

If you hear me talking about her all the time,
Its not because she pleases me...
Its because you're too deaf to hear my heartbeat.

If you feel me falling with someone new,
Its not because I love her...
Its because you're not there to catch me fall.

If you feel lost, I too am nowhere.
I too don't know where the road is going...
Are we gonna cross each other's path? Or just completely turn around?
Will we just let go of what we had? Or go to the place where love is bound?

Don't let me walk with her... Its you I want to walk with.
Don't let me talk of her... Its you I want to talk with.
Don't let me fall for her...
Its you I want to fall in love with..............
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The OTHER woman

After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another woman out to dinner and a movie. She said I love you but I know this other woman loves you and would love to spend some time with you.

The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my MOTHER, who has been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my three children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally.

That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie.

"What's wrong, are you well," she asked? My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or a sur prise invitation is a sign of bad news.

"I thought that it would be pleasant to be with you," I responded. "Just the two of us."

She thought about it for a moment, and then said, "I would like that very much."

That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit nervous. When I arrived at her house, I noticed t hat she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date. She waited in the door with her coat on. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last wedding anniversary.

She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angel's.

"I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were impressed, "she said, as she got into the car. "They can't wait to hear about our meeting". We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady. After we sat down, I had to read the menu. Large print. Half way through the entries, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips.

"It was I who used to have to read the menu when you were small," she said.

"Then it's time that you relax and let me return the favor," I responded.

During the dinner, we had an agreeable conversation -nothing extraordinary, but catching up on recent events of each other's life. We talked so much that we missed the movie.

As we arrived at her house later, she said, "I'll go out with you again, but only if you let me invite you." I agreed.

"How was your dinner date?" asked my wife when I got home. "Very nice. Much more so than I could have imagined," I answered.

A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happened so suddenly that I could not do anything about it.

Some time later, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place mother and I had dined.

An attached note said: "I paid this bill in advance. I wasn't sure that I could be there; but nevertheless, I paid for two plates - one for you and the other for your wife. You will never know what that night meant for me. I love you, son."

At that moment, I understood the importance of saying in time: "I LOVE YOU!" and to give our loved ones the time that they deserve. Nothing in life is more important than God and your family. Give them the time they deserve, because these things cannot be put
off till "some other time."

Cheers.


NOTE: this was just a forward i had recd...thought it was good to put it here ..